Hi, welcome 'again' to another opportunity for us to share!
Well, I have taken time to think about this and to be more candid.. I am more confused than I started off!
While those who are fortunate to enjoy a good marriage brag about the wonders and bliss of being married, the unfortunate ones blab about the horrors and bitterness of it.
So then, how do we know where we fall?
Fortunate or Unfortunate.
Naturally, we all want the first but truth is, some will always fall for the latter.
Remember, Its not about the money or other logistics right now, its about its necessity.
We on this blog, want to work on ourselves (either still single when u should be married, seperated or divorced), we want to help ourselves get the best out of this institution called marriage when its admission letter comes knocking and we want to start by knowing the place of marriage in our lives!
Is it REALLY like.. REALLY necessary for us to get married. Send in your comments and lets see what we can make out of this puzzle.
Pls, our MARRIED folks are totally welcomed to give their comments too but as we traditionally will appreciate, insert your name, sex, marital status (as in: married, never married, divorced, seperated) and country.
We need such details so as to understand your angle of opinion better.
Dreams Come True!
Well, what a topic: "MARRIAGE IS IT NECESSARY" if we say it's not necessary do we say God made a mistake for creating Eve for Adam as a help mate? but the Jesus said "if" if possible that one should remain unmarried for such his/her treasure is in Heaven(which is a "clause") but for the sake sin he (Jesus) advice that we should be married. the Bible says that two is better than one for if one fall the other will help raise up the second. i think what we face in marriages of this days is we are looking for "MR RIGHT" and not the will of God and unconditional love that only come from the heart, our expectations of our spouse are also mountain too high that when they are not met we feel we made a wrong choice. now what does it takes to be married? does it take one person? no, it takes two to be married and to be in harmony. do you ever feel you boyfriend/husband/wife/girlfriend does not give you enough or you feel you percentage to the relationship is much, what percentage is your commitment if you can calculate it says 50%, 60% 70% and you think you have done a lot, if that is your case then ask yourself what happen to the remaining percentage to make it 100% from my part? then you will realize that you best is yet to be committed to the relationship. i shall write more as time permits. cheers to my wonderful friend..Dareme..your friend {Godfirst} moses
ReplyDeleteHi!, great blog this is. Moses, must be a preacher to have all this stuff but all in all.. i got attracted to this blog cos of the title from facebook. I am in a twist of pressure to get married cos i am 31 now & as a girl.. it aint the sort of thing encouraged down here in Nigeria to be unmarried at this age.. but i can tell, i am a good girl.... just hoping to have this love freaky kind of marriage to a man we can be soulmates and i just haven't find it! Is it that men can't be trully trully straight forward and open to their aclaimed women.. I am just breaking off my last r/n cos.. i had a had talk with my guy (whom i was thinking i could just get married to) and he seem not to have been pleased with my words but instead of trashing it with me and you know... get angry and all but definately express himself, he acted like all was cool and the next thing, he has reported me to the whole world!.. I mean it!.. my friends, parents, his parents, classmates (cos he's running his Masters') everyone but me!.. I am so embarrassed... SO, I HONESTLY NEED TO KNOW.. Is this MARRIAGE STUFF REALLY NEEDED?.. Cos I am so heartbroken now.. I can't even think or work properly. I will check regularly on peoples' comment here if they have anyfor me. Please. THanks.
ReplyDeleteMARRAIGE!!! When you look @ d institution called marriage,it ws created by God Himself,the first marriage dat ws instituted ws the union of Adam n Eve.
ReplyDeleteSecondly,d first miracle Jesus did ws @ a wedding(canan of galilee) where he turned water to wine,we can recall from d bible where it is written dat a man shall leave his father n mother n cliff to his wife n dey shall become one.from this we can say that marriage is AGREEMENT AND NOT A CONTRACT consciously,willingly and preyerfully entered into by a MAN AND a WOMAN with christ as the foundation.
THE ESSENCE OF MARRIAGE..
Marriage is created by God for both parties to:
1)help each other(help mate)
2)to fellowship together
3)to multiply.
Marriage comes with some RESPONSIBILITIES,both d man n d woman must be ready to take one form of responsibility or d oda.
is Marriage Really Neccessary?
Lookin @ d plan of God,it is establisd to prevent fornication i.e if a man or a woman cant stay alone dey should go into marriage,d world today has turned into somefin else where immorality has become d order of d day,a lot of pple go into marriage unprepared,frustrated or even forced.
Finally,i will like to say that Marriage is an AGREEMENT,whether neccessary or not depends on individuals,